Monday, March 28, 2011

MbeWOW!

Greetings from Mombasa! --(I could make postcards)

I hope everyone is doing well. My spring break has been going wonderfully so far. Although I feel like I have been here a week, today is only day 3. 

Yesterday we attended church at Mbewau. I was once again happily greeted by Mary with wide and excited eyes and open arms. She held my hand and led me into church. She just cracks me up. I wish each one of you had the ability to come and experience this lifestyle, passion, and these people. 

I had forgotten how intense the village church services were. When the pastor prays, everyone prays. And it is usually not quiet whispers, but praying out loud. Everyone, at the same time. Sharing their praises, thanksgivings, and burdens with their Father. Church was in Swahili but it was good none the less. 
I saw the babies I have been watching grow up, if you will. My first year the babies, mostly girls, were all about 4-8 months old. Then the next year I cam back and they were all toddling around, exploring. Now I come and they are big girls! Baby Mercy is as charming as can be, and I think she knows it. Rosie is still shy, and the others are as cute as a button. 
Baby Mercy and I in 2009
I had the humbling opportunity to visit the government run hospital yesterday. We went to go pray over one of the church families who has a 4 month old baby with a severe case of jaundice. If measures would have been taken at the hospital during birth, this baby would be fine. But because of the lack of attention and care by the hospital then and now, this sweet baby girl is slowly fading. Her liver is not functioning at all and she has lost weight. She is tiny. We also went to visit a man who is the father of the school's gardener who was beat up the night before. He had been attacked on the road by a machete, with three hacks taken to the head, and about a dozen small stabs by a sharp/skinny object to the abdomen. He had a fractured skull, bleeding, and swelling in his brain along with who knows what in his abdomen. His eyes were glazed over, he was unaware of what was going on, and he was fighting to take the bandages off his head. After being there for 12 hours, he had not been given any medication or much attention. He had been tied to the bed and was laying restlessly in soiled rags around his scalp. The doctors didn't care.

This entire experience I want to share with you, not because I want to scare you of Africa or health care, but because I want to open your eyes to how lucky we are and what goes on in many third world countries around the world. In the baby ward, each crib had two babies in it. The crib had no sides so the mamas could sit or lay on the beds with the babies. On the other side of the room was a row of... drawers. Imagine taking all of your drawers out of your dresser and lining them up in a row. Then place some fabric, maybe a small pillow, and a sick baby in each of them. This is what it looked like. There were flies everywhere, smell of bodily fluids overrunning the room, and sick, helpless babies. Instead of having individual IV bags for each child, there was a water bottle filled with the hydration fluid that had 5 tubes with a hose and needle going into 5 little babies. In the neonatal, I saw the TINIEST baby I have ever seen. I cannot even describe her to you. It broke my heart. In the ER, a baby had died that day that had simply been wrapped up and laid on a bed for who knows how long. A man had a serious foot injury which had been bandaged up. He had his foot on the floor as he was laying on a bed. We told him to lift his foot above his heart, when he did we realized there was a constant drip of blood from his foot onto the floor. I wish I could have recorded all that I saw and smell with my eyes and nose and replayed them for you, but I can't. Healthcare is a serious problem in developing countries. Government health care is usually reported as being better than it actually is because of misrepresentation. 
The day then turned for the better again as I was able to reunite with our bus driver from the last two times I was here. Richard, his family, and I have become very close each of the times and they continued to call me about once a month while I was in the states. Richard has a 3 year old son, Elijah, and a 6 month old baby girl, Lisa. Elijah has one of the best smiles and pictures don't do it justice. I wish I could bring him home with me. We sat on the couch for 45 minutes as Elijah just sat as peacefully as could be with his head on my chest. Richard is such a blessing in my life and his joyful spirit brings such joy to my heart as well. 
Richard, Me, Elijah, Lisa, Pauline, Lisa, Chris

Last night I had a treat! We had what I would call girls night, although there was a boy there...oh well. We watched Life As You Know It, ate popcorn and ice cream, had cokes, talked about life and boys and what God is doing, and I bought some cute African shoes. It was so great and so needed. 

Today we went back to the school and cleaned out all of the classrooms because the kids are on break. Similar to our Christmas or Summer break, but lasts 1 month. We pulled down posters, swept with african brooms, peeled sticky tack off the walls, sweated like nobodies business, spoke and learned swahili, laughed, sanded desks and tables, sang, and enjoyed each others company. The conversations and way things are said here just crack me up. Today Chris was asking one of the guys in charge of the school if he ever sings to his wife (who was sitting across the lunch table). He said yes. Chris asked him to sing us all one of the songs. He said, "no, because you are not part of it." And as we were making our chai for breakfast, we were getting our tea bags from the bowls and one of the other men in charge was explaining to Chris that "African's love each other, one tea bag can last 10 men." He was very proud of their frugality and their ability to share. 
Tonight I had the most American dinner I have had yet.... HEB mac & cheese, steak, potatoes, and a salad!!!! MAN, it was yummy--Thanks Lisa!

Before & After Pictures of Mbewau

2008--the classroom 
2008 the first REAL4CHRIST trip to Mtepani

Classrooms 2009
not quite finished with them yet...
building and remodeling in process
Kitchen, 2009

School -2011 The second floor should be done in the next month
New logo for school
Baby Classroom 2011 
WOW!

2011 Feeding Center / Kitchen / Church
2011

Garden (sorry for the shadow) -it's Africa!
Never knew that's what a cashew looked like before eating

nakupenda,
Cathy

Saturday, March 26, 2011

KADZO!

I am back.
Back to the motherland.
Back in Kenya.
Back in Mombasa.
Back among the people I have formed friendships with over the last 3 years.
I am so happy to be here.
So overwhelmed with thanksgiving.

I arrived yesterday and spent the afternoon grocery shopping with Chris & Lisa, getting lunch, and settling in to my new home for the next 10 days. Chris and Lisa are full time missionaries here in Mombasa. You might remember them from my previous two adventures to Africa. They run a ministry called REAL4Christ. They started a school in one of the nearby villages called Mbewau (said em bay wow) in Mtepani.

Today I regrettably had the opportunity to attend a funeral for the father of one of the students. This man died last week after being hit on his motorcycle (pikipiki) by a bus. He left behind a young wife (24-25) and 4 children ranging between 10 and 2. The oldest, Janet, was having a very hard time dealing with the situation and was holding back tears the entire time I was around her. The funeral was huge. Because the father was so young and a pikipiki driver, many were there. Chris said a couple thousand. There was literally a sea of people. Chris and I were the only white people there.
one small part of the sea of people.
The casket is under the tree on the right side
the people beside me
Within about five minutes of being there, I saw a man walk by with a picture safety pinned to his shirt. The picture was of the father after he had been hit, laying on the ground with blood. Can you image someone wearing that at a funeral at home? Here I suppose it showed a sign of respect.

There was dancing and food and drinks and music at this all day event. Family had come in for the entire weekend and it was a mixture between sadness and celebration. The wife has been in mourning with the other ladies of the village for the last 9 days.

dancing--these ladies pulled me into the middle and started dancing with me
The pikipiki drivers came and drove loops around the casket and spun around in circles to stir up dust. It was their way of showing respect.


PLEASE pray for this family. He was not a believer and his wife has not been saved either. The funeral was not religious because it was mostly run by the pikipiki men. Please pray that his death will be a way for the widow and others to come to know the Lord and the peace He can give.


On a happier note, I was able to reunite with some of the women of the village and the pastor/school advisors from the school. I was so excited to see them, and they seemed genuinely excited to see me. I was standing on a dirt hill watching the pikipikis when I saw a few women starting to walk towards me. The lady in front had a HUGE smile on her face and started saying "Kadzo, Kadzo!" (They named me Kadzo last time because I spent so much time with them they welcomed me into their community and gave me a local name which means beauty). I immediately recognized her, "Mary!" Joy and thankfulness overflowed from me. I embraced her. Feeling her frail body, skin and bones hug me back. She got the attention of some of her friends, the other mothers of the kids from school, and we all hugged. She pulled me up to where she was standing with the other women and held my hand for the next 20 minutes. She would turn and look at me every once in a while. My heart was so incredibly happy.
Mary in 2009
Me & Mary in 2009- I know I look super cool
"Eucharisto means grace..the Greek word chara means "joy."... Deep chara joy is found only at the table fo euCHARisteo- the table of thanksgiving... is it that simple? Charis-grace. Eucharisteo-Thanksgiving. Chara-joy... The greatest thing [of life] is to give thanks for everything. He who has learned this knows what it means to live. He has penetrated the whole mystery of life: giving thanks for everything. " ---- One Thousand Gifts by Ann Voscamp.
Stop and think. When we give thanks, we are praising God and accrediting Him for things. Kidogo na kubua. When we thank Him and appreciate Him and take the time to marvel in what He has given us, we become filled with joy. It is hard to be mad when you are giving thanks and telling God how great He is.

Tomorrow we are going to church at Mbewau and I will show the pictures from before and now. There have been some amazing transformations with this school and what it is today. God is good. 


Mbewau today. WOW
From my thankful heart to yours,
Cathy

Thursday, March 24, 2011

Blown Away by Kindness

I am just constantly moved by the kindness the people here have. They give up their chairs, give any visitor tea, treat me like I am their daughter, and take care of me. 

I am just so moved by their compassion and kindness. Today Skollar took my clothes off the line outside and brought them inside because it was going to rain and I was taking a nap. I woke up to thunder and ran outside to get my clothes only to find them all gone. I walked into one of the big rooms and there she was, laying them out so they could finish drying. I love these women. I truly feel blessed to have the opportunity to build a relationship with them. 

Tonight we are going to the circus and then at 3:30 AM tomorrow morning I will leave here to get on a plane and fly to Mombasa.

I can't wait!

And I got my first package today that was sent about a month and a half ago!! YAY!
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